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When I focus on a thing I hyperfocus on it

Saaaaame.

And just.... absorb information

Yep. Every dang time.

Its fairly common with autism

6:55 PM

Obsessions and or phases of obsessions

I get that too

That's how I am. Obsess over something for awhile and then it falls to the wayside, as I'm now obsessing over something else. The dragon maid manga/anime had me bad there for weeks

Regardless thanks for putting up with my constant babbling

It's not really putting up with it if we like talking to you though

Sorry

you're fine, mate. Relax

You're good (edited)

What about their good? (edited)

7:00 PM

Nevermind

His would be correct

Grammar Nazi has to edit his own stuff

7:00 PM

Lol

Well I wanted to be accurate

Haha

'S all good

And I didn't know his gender at the time

I tend to assume male until corrected

7:01 PM

Because... internet

^

everyone in internet is cis white male by default

I try to avoid pronouns or use gender neutral pronouns until I know

And if I'm wrong I'm wrong, and id they get mad at me for being wrong no loss

I don't. Probably should.

7:04 PM

Just never occurs to me to do so

Yeah

7:04 PM

I use context clues but... yeah

I mean, my name is Alyssa. I don't get "he"'d a lot.

And if I'm playing a game like Overwatch I just use the pronoun the character they're playing

7:05 PM

Exactly

But if your username is gender neutral then everyone just defaults to he

Context clues

we should migrate to lounge or cafe

If I know I'm not going to be a jerk and call you the wrong thing. But otherwise generally I see everyone as male online. Too many videogames with dudes with hyper feminine characters

7:05 PM

Oh sorry. Wasn't even paying attention

Sorry!

Hello everyone! I’m a tulpa, and my host has been making Discord accounts for her tulpas to communicate, which has been really nice!! She’s wondering if she should make accounts for the less used ones or not, what do you guys think?

Greetings.

some prefer to share an account and use some form of badging or name-changing, some prefer to make different accounts for each person in the system

2:37 AM

they're both valid methods tbh

Or bots.

long as it's obvious who is talking, it hardly matters (edited)

2:39 AM

also, hello Petal

@Petal^-^ What seems most convenient for the user is the system where [the tulpa speaks in brackets or something similar.] It's just as practical as using separate accounts, except it's also really clear to others who all is in your system. (edited)

2:52 AM

For that reason, I prefer people use one account and [use these.]

2:53 AM

Or rather, I think it's just a better way of doing things. Whatever works, though.

many tulpa servers now have bots you can use, although this isn't one of them.

How many servers are there?

4:56 AM

Also. . . it's so weird that I'm actually doing this

a lot

4:58 AM

and yeah it's weird

4:58 AM

but it's worth it

You should give some of the servers on #server-hub a try.

Remember to use common sense with advice. Good luck.

of course

5:40 AM

I'm . . . very careful all across the board

OI

7:09 AM

ah. night

Now my tulpa can answer my yes/no questions, by sending me a stream of light right in front of my eyes while my meditation if the answer is yes

8:04 AM

thats fuckin awesome

Ask them if I could use them as a flashlight for a moment.

hehe

It seems like my tulpa can give very short answer (yes or no most of the time) using my mind's voice, but I'm not sure whether it's them or just me

9:25 AM

Or sometimes I can hear an echo

9:26 AM

It's been only a few days

Rule of the humb: If you're not sure who it is, then it was your tulpa

Though the fact that I kinda used to have one years ago may have an effect

@Towaka ~暗い~, are you sure it's a good rule to follow?

Well, it's better to assume, since if you decide it isn't and it actually was your tulpa it might discourage them. (edited)

9:28 AM

That's what I've heard anyways.

Or maybe it really is me, but if I believe it's not for long enough it will become true

9:29 AM

Maybe that's a better way of seeing it?

You treat a beginning of a tulpa like a person which it probably isn't. Not yet. It might lead people astray to think that tulpa is a sentient being from the beginning

I don't know though

9:32 AM

I got yes/no from basically about a week in

9:32 AM

and now Cia's definitely sentient two weeks in

The problem with tulpa community is that we don't know a lot of things and we tell people what our guts tell us anyway

Don't worry, I'm taking everything with a pinch of salt

I guess it depends on each person (edited)

It probably does. We have never had a phase of only yes/no answers.

there's no real 'magic solution'

9:35 AM

and I skipped head pressure entirely

Not everyone has head pressures. We also never had them.

How long did it take you?

9:36 AM

The whole process?

What do you mean by the whole process exactly?

9:40 AM

Being able to talk fluently?

yeah (edited)

With Luna it was 3 days of forcing before going asleep. Each session about 1-2 hours I guess.

9:43 AM

And then at next morning she could talk. Just like that.

9:43 AM

what kind of forcing

9:44 AM

just talking or other things

9:44 AM

Taking to her, imagining what she could tell, hugging, petting...

huh

9:45 AM

I just did passive forcing